georgia confidential

good for the soul

Professionals in various areas of expertise have called me out over the past week. I must confess:

No, I haven't been flossing regularly.

No, I haven't been watering the lawn.

No, I haven't been watching my cholesterol.

All of these disclosures have come as I rush to complete a series of appointments in advance of my departure for Germany. I'm trying to mark everything off the list, but here's one more thing I must confess: I don't want one more disapproving look from a professional. Sorry!

unplugged

Friday really depressed me. I'm sure that sounds like a very selfish reaction to the tragedy in Colorado, and it probably is. I was extremely sad, in waves ... first the horror, then the political fallout, then the inevitable arguments. I decided on a weekend news fast, including social media. This was easier than I thought [except for my NPR Saturday morning].

The only thing that helps me in a situation like this is going to the movies. Ironic, right?

I chose the only kind of movie environment that would make me feel better: The Fox Theater. An organist played songs on a giant instrument that rose from the floor. There was even a sing-along. Cartoons were shown on the big screen. We sat in an enormous, old-fashioned auditorium under a starry sky (artificial but beautiful) and felt like we were in a Moorish palace.

I slipped away for a few hours, then emerged into the thrill of a Midtown Friday night. I took MARTA back to my wonderful house, my fabulous bed, and felt that the next day would be better. For me, life goes on. But I haven't forgotten about the tragedy. And I'm not eager to learn anything more about it. All I can do is pray for people who were more directly affected. And stay off web sites.

the things i carried

My dirty underwear.

A floor fan.

An ironing board.

A bouquet of flowers.

the shop around the corner

A colleague has invited me to his home for a barbecue, and I want to take flowers as a hostess gift.

During my walks this week I have seen a flower shop, just one street over. Even though it was past the shop’s posted hours, the owners welcomed me this afternoon. I believe the owners are a married couple and their daughter helps them run the place. On a scale of English ability, the dad was a 2, the mom was a 5 and the daughter was a 9 – obviously the strongest of the three. I won’t recount the exchanges that led me to these scores, but through it all they learned why I’m here, where I work, etc.  The father said something to the daughter, who waved it off … but then the mother piled on. Turned out they wanted her to ask me about applying for a job at the company where I’m working, could I help her? I said I would return with some information.

While the mom prepared a lovely bouquet for me, the dad peppered me with questions through his English-speaking daughter. Where am I staying? What have I seen? What did I do today? I recounted my successes at the waschsalon, and he asked, “Why did you go to that one?”

“It’s the only one I know,” I answered. When he learned of this, he shook his head. He mentioned that a better, closer option is found in a neighborhood south of the watertower. Unexplored territory.

Soon my bouquet was complete.  The mother handed me a second, much smaller takeaway: a white rose, twinned with babysbreath and accented with a ribbon. A small gift for me. Schoen [nice].

room and (ironing) board

Second on my shopping list was a full-sized ironing board. The hotel had kindly provided a table top ironing board. This proved far from effective.

One of the nice things about staying near der Planken is there are shops galore, including the Mannheim equivalent of Target / Bergner’s / Macy’s. Someone at work tipped me that Kaufhof Galleria was the place I sought.  I found the right department and there was a lovely display of ironing boards, conveniently shrinkwrapped.

I have found it helpful to look up a word before shopping. This reduces stress and confusion for
everyone involved. Google Translate revealed the word for ironing board is bügelbrett. I approached the cashier and was prepared to deliver my best bügelbrett pronounciation.  I had practiced all the way over. But she spoke better English than I do.

 I tucked the bügelbrett under my arm like a surfboard and set off for home.

fan dance

Walking through the Turkish Quarter, I checked my shopping list and at the top was “a fan.” How do you explain a fan to a non-English speaker? Fortunately, I’ve discovered, there is usually one person who can speak enough for translation. I employed my unique skills of pantomime to the
shop owner, who enlisted the help of his daughter. She sat behind the counter and pointed to an oscillating floor fan near the shop’s doorway. She explained I could buy one and assemble it.

Could I just buy this one? I queried.

She evaluated this option with her father. He said yes  and quoted a price.

I paid.

He unplugged the fan, wrapped the cord around the neck of the fan, and held it out to me.

So it was that when I crossed the Marktplatz to head back to my hotel, I was the woman carrying the fan.

quick and dirty

The key to packing for a 3-week trip is to pack for a 1-week trip, and spend time at the laundromat. The staff at the hotel pointed me to a facility on the edge of the downtown area. If there’s one thing I planned well, it was laundry accessories (one of the great inventions of our age: the Tide packet). So today I made my way up “S,” crossed the Marktplatz  and plunged into the heart of Little Istanbul.

Everyone was out enjoying the gorgeous morning, shopping, talking, eating. It was about a 20-minute walk to the Schnell und Sauber [Quick and Clean] but it passed quickly because of all the sights and sounds. These did not stop once I arrived at the waschsalon [laundromat], which had a brisk business for a Saturday morning, with many wash machines taken by a man and woman. This couple appeared to be washing every article of linen they owned.

In hopes of learning the ropes, I watched them for a while. I studied drawings posted around the grimy room. I burned up expensive data on my smart phone trying to translate words I saw posted in the payment area. In the end, I had to ask another patron, a harried woman, how to do it. She knew enough English and could point effectively, so learned how to pay for a load and how to turn on a machine.  I never quite mastered the dryer; I think its settings were “damp,” “slightly less damp” and “still somewhat damp.”

The only signs I could figure out were “no drinking” and “no loitering,” and it wasn’t hard to comply. There was nothing to do there and no surfaces that would allow computer or writing activity. I read, but mostly watched the pas a deux as the couple folded their large collection of bed
sheets.

I also tried not to touch anything around me. I’ve never thought so much about disinfecting myself from a place designed to get things clean. It’s a testament to my thirst for new things that I left with a sense of accomplishment.  The Schnell und Sauber lived up to its name, pretty much: I had clean clothes for the week ahead, even it if took most of my Saturday morning to make that happen.

arrival

I flew out of the new, beautiful international terminal, sweetened by a free pass to the Delta Sky Lounge.  I really got a lot done, even with hordes of kids entering in hour two. Apparently they’ll let anyone in an airport lounge these days. My plane trip was remarkable only in that I sat next to the
quietest man with the largest bladder. If you’re in an aisle seat, as I was, that is a seatmate made to order.

 I arrived in Frankfurt and caught the high-speed train to Mannheim. It thrills me every time. It’s so simple, so efficient and so reliable. (Those are three words you never hear associated with Amtrak.) My hotel was a 10-minute walk from the train station, and you do re-evaluate your packing choices when you are pulling your enormous suitcase down the main street of a city for 10 minutes.

My hotel, chosen for me by my colleagues, was perfect in every way:  compact but bijou. I settled in, unpacked everything, and then had to lie down … just for a few minutes … Eventually it was time for a shower and a walk in the lovely evening.

I wandered around, no destination in mind, and found myself in an open-air restaurant within earshot of church bells. Another one of my favorite things about Germany are church bells. They peal regularly, a wonderful sound. I walked through the Marktplatz and took some photographs, and watched the tram go by.  The Euro 2012 football** tournament is on, so everyone is out and about, waiting for the match to begin. What a lovely start to this trip.

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 ** As we say in America, soccer; as they say in Germany, fussball (pronounced “foosball”)

itinerary

I spent most of tonight doing the thing I love most: planning a trip to a new city. I have the maps, the websites, the lists, the possibilities, all laid out before me. Sometimes I think I love planning the trip even more than actually taking the trip.

So far I have researched public transit, concerts (of all types), museums, hotels, restaurants and the red light district.  (Purely for awareness. Honest.)

This is the only "new" city in the upcoming marathon of travel. Two continents, three states, before Memorial Day. I am beside myself with joy. As long as I don't look at the exchange rates.

prescience

It was 30 minutes before I needed to leave for the event in the city. It was raining. And I was recounting every good reason not to go.

But in the end I did drive the 50 minutes because I was curious about a spelling bee started by drinking buddies and notable for its toughness. Not to mention, the nights I least want to go to something are usually the nights that prove to be most worthwhile.

“How far did you drive to get here?” asked the man seated to my left.

“Pretty far,” I said.

“Probably not as far as we did,” he countered.

“Try me,” I said.

Turns out he and his wife live in the same far-outside-the-perimeter suburb that I do.